You must respect and love me as I am.
Otherwise, you have to be loved by others. Then, you must pay attention to what others think, show off well to others, and live a life for others. You have to farm hard in someone else’s field. Who owns the harvest from that farm? It belongs to someone else. Otherwise, you just have to keep working. For very little compensation. No matter how hard they try, they cannot avoid being tenant farmers without their own land.
The moment you love yourself, you can farm on your own land. If you shed blood and sweat in that fertile soil, the harvest will be all yours. It is a great blessing and good luck. These psychological problems, such as depression and anxiety, are ultimately the result of not loving oneself.
Myungja Anna Koh